Trust

Guys can be so believable. He said he loved me. And I trusted him and our love enough to give him another chance and now I can't fathom why.  I don't get why some guys think that video games or card games are more important then thier girlfriends. And they turn around and wonder why they don't have anyone. We'll its because you have to chose what's more important to you. I was nice to him when I dumped him. I will post the conversation so that its on here but to really understand you would have to know me.

I am a kind girl. a goody two shoes even. For me to get mean or nasty with someone they have to get nasty and mean with me first. They have to offend me first before I will start telling them to shut up and then I tell them the truth.

See after he got mean to me I told him he needed to shut up and that he was just a bitter asshole that doesn't want to take responsibility for his part in this. Which is true because he tried putting all the blame on me. And I'm not taking all the blame for this. I really shouldn't take any blame for it because I really didn't do anything wrong besides for giving him another chance. He's the one that ignored me and then tried to make me feel like i was the lowest piece of shit on the planet just because I broke up with him. He was nasty and disrespected me just because I dumped his ass. Ending a relationship is perfectly legal.

His harrassing me because of it isn't legal!!

I mean all I did was end the relationship and now he's trying to make me feel like a piece of shit.

But It doesn't hurt me that he said it because I decided that I wasn't gonna let him get to me.

What really bothers me is that he crossed the line into that extreme just because I dumped him and he really had no right to do that. So I have decided that I'm going to get a restraining order on him so that he can't email me or talk to me or even come to my house.

That way I know I will not have to put up with his crap anymore.