Sunday, November 27, 2011

All the things he did wrong : A list of the things DG did wrong and How he proved to me that it wasn/t going to work between us. AKA Why I dumped him.

  1. He always played video games or watch tv when I came over.
  2. When Ever I said that I like something he acted like he didnt care about my opinion cuz he didn't like it.
  3. I realized we had nothing in common.
  4. He never listened to me when I tried explaining how I felt about him ingoring me. Or at least He never did anything about it. Cuz I know he heard what I was saying. He just never did anything to change it.\
  5. It was always me that had to go to his house. So I had to talk to chris and get him to take me to DG's. Which in turn made chris's family think that I was just using him to drive me places.
  6. We also been dating for almost two months and he sat there and said somthing along the lines we never dated longer then 2 or 3 weeks so thats why he don't know how to be a good boyfriend. Well you know what you don't always have to wait til I'm single he could have tried dating other people. Cuz he knows I dated other people!!
  7. He also barely touched me. He only kissed me when I left or when I dragged him into the bedroom to talk and we ended up cuddling. And that only happened twice.
  8. The entire time I dated Him I had one song In my head called HOW FAR by MARTINA MCBRIDE I will post that and the lyrics later but basicaally it says how far do I have to go to get you to pay attention and show me that you care. It also asks Would you even care if I stay or leave? Its a song about the how she wants to make it work but that he needs to show her that he wants to make it work too. She finally gives up and walks away to see how far she has to go before he stops her. So that tells me I was the only one feeling the way I felt.
And that's why I decided to end things. Because it felt like he wasn't trying. He never did anything besides play his games. He see's the relationship as a game too. And Someone who loves you would not be able to let you do that easily. He didn't even try to win me back or change my mind. He didn't fight for me at all. And then again he tried to pin it all on me cuz he don't want to take the blame for this.
The fact is that I did try to tell him how I felt and he didn't listen. So that's not my fault that he wasn't willing to prove to me that he cared. I'm not taking the blame for this break up because I did everything I could think of to save us. The only thing I didn't do was tell him to change or I was gonna dump him. And I would never do that. So Instead I talked to him and threw hints at him that things needed to change. And he still sat there doing nothing so I put the blame one him. Because I tried everything I could to save us. Hes the one that ignored everything I said to him and never did anything about it. That is his fault and yet he still tries to put all the blame on me. Well thanks for showing me your true colors and it was nice knowing you...NOT! GOODBYE DG!!!

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