Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Guys


It's a known fact that Christina Aguilera is one of my role models. Now here are the reason: 
1. She has said before that she would feel uncomfortable being conservative and covering her body because she likes her body the way it is. I agree. I don't think girls should have to cover their bodies or tone down thier style choices just because Some guys are pervs and don't know how to control themselves. 
2. Her songs hit me on a personal level like her song 'Can't hold us down' Which is basically a song about the double standards in society about guys and girls. Guys think they can touch girls if they dress a certain way and show some skin. They get called a whore not just by guys but by churches and other people too. Just because they aren't open minded and think its inappropriate doesn't mean that it is. And her song 'I'm ok' about how her father mistreated her mother it speaks to me because my father does the same to my mother. He is mostly abusive mentally now. But she stays with him because she can't see past her love for him. And I swore I was never gonna be with a man that treated me like that. No one is gonna mistreat me just because I'm a woman and they think they are superior because they are men. Well  without woman there would be no children!! Woman carry and give birth to children. I'd like to see a man go through that kind of pain and see how he likes it. See if he would still treat a woman like crap. But those are only two of the songs that speak to me. Almost all of her songs have meaning for me. 
3. She stands up for what she believes in just like I do. You should never give up or give in just because everyone around you is telling you that your wrong. Because what if your the only one that's right? You Just gotta keep saying what your saying until they finally understand or until they drop the subject because they realize they aren't gonna corrupt you. DON'T LET PEOPLE CHANGE YOU!! 
4. She supports gay people. I support them too!! No one should tell people that they can't be in love. My dad is gay. I don't hate him because he's gay. I hate him because he's mean to my mom and because he cheated on her with another guy and she caught them and yet she allowed him to stay with us and he still treats her like crap. I lost respect for him a long time ago but that has nothing to do with the fact that he's gay. 
5. She has dad issues. Well I don't know if she still has them but I know I do. Mainly because of the whole double standard thing and the whole him treating my mom and me and my bro like crap for so long. And never showing us any respect because he thinks that he doesn't have to. Just because we are his kids doesn't mean that he doesn't need to respect us. And it doesn't mean that he is better or smarter then us just because he's the dad and he's older. Actually he didn't even graduate high school and me and my bro did so I bet there are things we know more about then he does. But it's like he refuses to even consider that. So yeah that's why I have dad issues. I have never been daddy's little girl but that was his own fault. 

So yeah there are lots of things me and Christina Aguilera have in common so that's why I like her plus it's a big reason why she's my role model. We have the same personality and the same morals. And we believe in the same things. I grew up listening to her music and I'm proud to say I still listen to all of her albums today. Even though the CD stripped is a couple years old the songs still touch me and I still listen to them. 
I'm glad I grew up in the 90's listening to the real pop music artists cause today's pop stars have no idea what real pop music is and neither do any of their fans. I wish they would bring back the good songs. But you know I love the fact that Britney spears and Christina Aguilera are still on top almost ten years after their first albums came out. That proves to me that they are the real deal unlike all these other wanna be's that the Disney channel is putting out and trying to sell all of us. The Disney stars sing crap pop music. I fell sorry for this generation because they have no idea what real music is. 

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